{"id":6595,"date":"2020-12-27T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-27T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/?p=133846"},"modified":"2020-12-27T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2020-12-27T08:00:00","slug":"biggerpockets-podcast-429-pursuing-self-sovereignty-and-why-life-is-more-meaningful-when-its-hard-with-ryan-michler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/biggerpockets-podcast-429-pursuing-self-sovereignty-and-why-life-is-more-meaningful-when-its-hard-with-ryan-michler\/","title":{"rendered":"BiggerPockets Podcast 429: Pursuing Self-Sovereignty and Why Life is More Meaningful When It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Hard with Ryan Michler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How many times has something happened in life where we blamed someone besides ourselves for the outcome? Didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t get a promotion: it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s your bosses fault for being greedy! Ran late to work: it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s all the other drivers faults, not yours! Investment property having problems: it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the tenant doing all the damage!<\/p>\n<p>Ryan Michler, founder of the Order of Man, sees this sort of victim mentality as a massive block to our full potential. He makes the well-put point that all we can do is control our effort, we can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t control others.<\/p>\n<p>This realization didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t come easy, though. Ryan realized this after a tough fight with his partner, leading him to reevaluate not only their relationship, but the way he shifted blame on others, in an unhealthy way.<\/p>\n<p>Now Ryan interviews the men that he looks up to on his own podcast, all while running his organization\/brotherhood of those part of the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Order of Man\u00e2\u20ac\u009d.<\/p>\n<p>It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not easy to stay humble and calm all the time, especially in the state of our current world, but Ryan does as good of a job as any to remind us all that our future is in our hands, and all we can do is try our best, consistently.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many times has something happened in life where we blamed someone besides ourselves for the outcome? Didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t get a promotion: it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s your bosses fault for being greedy! Ran late to work: it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s all the other drivers faults, not yours! Investment propert&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[2301],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6595"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6595"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6595\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7832,"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6595\/revisions\/7832"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6595"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6595"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jerrybice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6595"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}